Attracted to someone who is engaged

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Health Conditions Discover Plan Connect. Medically reviewed by Janet Brito, Ph. Why does it matter? Terms A to C. Share on Pinterest. Terms D to K. Terms L to Q. Terms R to Z. The bottom line. Read this next. Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, Ph. What should I do? Your possible to-do list is all about what you say or don't say or feel or don't feel about your colleague — but your focus belongs on your fiancee. Is that what is going on here? Or, I should say, is that what your attraction to your colleague is trying to tell you?

Crushes happen, obviously, and I could run testimonials all day from people still happily married who have endured passing extramarital crushes, even intense ones.

So, you could easily find yourself reading this a year from now mystified that you ever found this colleague attractive. But you're not married yet — so I think you have an obligation, to yourself and your fiancee, to ask yourself if being so "refreshed" by someone else means you got engaged to the wrong person — or just prematurely, before you knew what kind of connection to a person was possible. Mentally put your choice of life partner to the challenge presented by this new information.

Do this without involving your colleague or entertaining any idea of being with her, because she's married. Plus, her glances at you could just mean she's unnerved by your glances at her. We all have crushes if not, will or maybe never at all! But you need to just draw lines when necessary.

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